When your excuses goes out of style.

After a long time in second life you learn to pick up on things that are not 100% like when you meet a person that constant have an excuse for not voice with you, I mean why not be honest if you are dating someone you like and want more than a sl fling. It is essential that you show yourself or voice, there are a lot of predators out there standing in line to use who ever come along. I seen a lot of them and you might have been close to become a victim yourself cause they are that good to blend in next to you, that it make it hard to pick them out. For as long as I can remember men have played women in SL, nothing wrong with that at all but if you get involved with someone who are a real women and did that without telling them that you are not a real woman that is cruel. At least if they look for a real life partner that many these days do, but if it is a sl thing then play the fantasy but do it good.

Back to what I wanted to talk about was all those that keep on with the lame excuses, like I met someone long ago she said she liked me and wanted to have more than a friendship I told her we should talk on voice so we could get to know each other faster that’s when the problems started.. First off they have no microphone or it is broken and they have still not bought a new one, does not mean its a man on other end yet some women special Europeans “can’t speak english / refuse..”.  You might accept that they can’t talk right now so you wait a few weeks and it comes up again and you get served more excuses like “I have not spoken English in years”, well it’s about time you start then no need to be afraid to voice.

So many women I have met in past they serve you with so many excuses that they could get away with 5 years ago, but today and no way if that will happen. I even offered to buy a headset to one of my friends but all of sudden that person had to leave SL, I guess to go play another of her alt’s. At least I have the ball’s to tell people I meet in this world who I am in RL if that come to the table or if it is a need to know, if the other person really like you they take you as you are in the virtual world that is my experience. To run around and tell old outdated excuses only make you look like a complete idiot and by doing that people will assume that you are a guy pretending to be a woman, does not matter how good you look cause anyone with a brain can make an avatar look nice.

It prob will come like a shock for some of you but women special those younger than 40 are more liberal than those over 40, they are not expecting to find a man like figure in SL they take you as you are if you are honest and don’t act like a complete jerk. I once had a girlfriend that took me just as I was I only wish I had her still, but I guess it was part of my learning process to lose her to maybe gain some thing else that I have not found yet.

Last words for those it apply to, never to late to start be “cool”.

Update V0.87b

I am at this point now in my new second life as I have gone from mesh body and  Catwa to the bright side of SL, a new shape more curves than I ever had and a bento head from same as the old. I know this is a lot of work the tweaking can make a person go crazy if you are a perfectionist, I cheated this time and bough a premade shape that I can play around with. Took me most of saturday and sunday to get as much done so I could dare be around other people without look like an alpha project, and now I look more like a beta + / almost done project.

Initial this was not part of my plan to look like this I had plans to look like I always have, with help of a friend I got a skin and a shape that gave me boobies and a bigger butt. Went from pale to tan I have been running away from this look for years, and it was not bad at all now I can blend in with a random curvy bimbo if i desire..lol..

No pictures as of now you need to draw a mental picture of how I might look like, I would think a curvy body, booty and a pair of bigger boobies will get you starting to make your mental image nice or give you nightmares…

Ps: Feel free to jerk off to the mental images…. he-he…

Bimbo Trix is a fiction Character in SL!

For obvious reasons I have decided not to post my name I use in Second Life on my blog, not keen on answering a gazillion questions from horny avatars that think I am a cheap lay… lol…

First off if you consider play a dickgirl / shemale / or any other avatar that involves a penis on a female body then you should listen good.

The name what ever you do never ever pick a male name, it does not matter that you can change your screen name we still be able to see your “bob999” and nobody serious want to hookup with a bob that look like a woman…

Once you figure out a suitable name for your new avatar then don’t go for all the cheap crappy clothes, skins, mesh bodies etc. There are plenty of places to find good shit like on hunts, or you can check out meshaddicts.com a lot of great ideas and help along the way to look hot as hell.

And whatever you might think do not buy a cheap ass penis, I use an expensive one (Aeros) that is for men but you can use it for your dickgirl. Once you got all this sorted you could use search and find a few great places, I would recommend a sim called Abbey Island (just write in the map box and it find the sim). It’s an adult sim so your avatar need to be verified as an adult or you wont get anywhere good, no need to join expensive groups that claim to be the best out there. Trust me if you know how to roleplay you do not need to join these places that offers a lot they can’t hold on to, there are a lot of smaller communities that does it way better.

The bottom line is that if you act like a normal person and do not become a moron you will be a well liked person that others want to hangout with, so remember to act nice no need to be acting like a bitch and think by being rude you get all good attention. People will run away from you and I have seen people lose a lot of cred by being an asshat, be yourself make nice and fuck like a star and you are good!

By now you prob should have spent a shit load of lindens to look fab and ready for some hardcore action, figure out who you are gonna play who is your character? You could make up a story or free form play I sometimes do that, but usual I am top I rarely let someone fuck my tight little butthole….!

After a lot of tweaking your avatar, color matching cock and skin, appearance and when you feel ready you could end up at a place called The Blacklist it should be a sure thing if you play your cards right!  And no matter what never ask someone you just met for ASL (age, sex & location) you are not here to date real life for that log out of SL. Remember what happens in SL stays there, no need to drag real life here it spoil the roleplay!

If you still here and can’t figure it out start on top and read again, or if that does not help you should probably leave SL!